Where we focus our attention when things go wrong can keep us stuck or empower us. Blaming others or circumstances, we focus on factors outside our control, gives innocence but leaves us powerless. Concentrating on our own behavior and our ability to respond in the face of the situation, focusing on factors within our control, provides us with the power to improve the situation. In Axialent we call this the victim and the player mindsets.
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